[FFmpeg-user] Using ffmpeg with flash encoder

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Hi,
I have a requirement.
One streamer  client is using Flash media encoder and sending the stream 
to the Server.
But i am using ffmpeg on my server.
So in order to use it what should i do ?
I want to control the stream connection from the server  But currently 
the setup is such that the client uses
FME and connects from his side . But if i restart server , i have to ask 
him to connect it again which is difficult everytime.
So instead of he connecting to our server , can we use ffmpeg or 
someother means to connect to his machine and access FMLE?
George